How do you deal with the gay scene in regards to going out to a club or bar? I find myself sometimes afraid and hesitant to put myself in those environments knowing that people know my political and religious beliefs.
Hm. Well, to be honest? I don’t drink or party. I’m one boring girl! I guess that’s sort of funny to hear, considering that I live in New York City, but I don’t really go clubbing or do anything like that… I meet women my age through mutual friends, campus, etc.
But, hey- I’ll still try to answer this to the best of my ability!
Um. Well, if you do hit the club to find a cutie, I’d say that you might just avoid the topic of politics and religion altogether? I mean, if you feel an attraction to someone physically and, after getting to know them, you feel that incredible connection with them… then religious and political affiliations should be superfluous. Honestly? My advice (sorry that it sucks, I’m a bad advice-giver): go out and have fun. If you meet someone and you hit it off, then you shouldn’t worry how they’ll judge you for your opinions. Because they’re YOUR opinions, and they don’t define you or make you a better or worse person. They make you, you.
And, honestly? If someone, especially a potential love interest, judges you for having opinions? Then they’re not worth it.
…wow, I’m bad at this. Any advice for this fellow here, followers? Sorry!